So, we had a wonderful first Christmas with Parker. He got plenty of love from family and friends. We enjoyed the candlelight service at Stonecreek, and we had a great dinner with my Mom and Sister. We later went over to my aunt Angie’s house to see the Ashby family for our annual Christmas Eve get-together. My aunt Rachel who lives in Boston flew in with her family and it was great to see them and see how much her family has grown. We did our traditional reading of the bible story and the kids opened presents. Good times were had by all. Some family wasn’t able to make it, and that saddened a lot of us. It is my hope that they were able to enjoy the holiday even in the midst of a very difficult situation.
Some of you may be asking: What happened to Sunday Slim-down and Sleepy Low-down? Well, I’ve decided that it is just too much pressure (not to mention it doesn’t really make for good reading) to do a post every week. So, I’m going to try to update you all on my progress monthly as originally planned. I’m hoping that monthly will allow me more time to really start to see results. I was told recently that breastfeeding puts your body into a pseudo-pregnancy state, which can make it more difficult to loose weight. It was a little reassuring to hear that since I’ve still been teetering around the same weight, and it has been over a month since my original “I’m going to put the smack-down on weight loss” post (well, not exactly titled that, but close). Not to mention that even with me exercising and watching what I eat, it can get a little depressing not to see the scale go down and then have to write about that fact.
BUT you know what? I think I’m coming to terms with it a little bit. I’m not by any means going to settle for this weight. I’m still going to push myself to loose weight and get to my pre-preggo bod and beyond, but I think what I’ve learned recently is that my priority right now should be to be a good mom, and be a good wife. If I’m stressing all day about trying to fit in a workout, or beating myself up for not loosing weight, then THAT isn’t good either. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I need to be positive and try to cut myself some slack since my little one is only three months old, and we’re still having “those days”, which make life…well,… unpredictable.
My focus for the next few weeks is trying to put myself on a schedule. I know that sounds really silly, but now that I have Parker on a good routine…I’m trying to put myself on one so that I can get things accomplished around the house. We decided in order to save money, and since I’ll be at home, that I will be doing the household chores instead of hiring maids. With that being said, I’ve been using my trusty outlook calendar to see what chores I can do on what days all while fitting in some time with my little man, grocery shopping, working out, cooking dinner, and spending time with my husband. As I mentioned above, some days can certainly be unpredictable with a three month old, but having a task list of the weeks “to-do’s” will help me feel accomplished and organized by weeks end.
On another note: Parker and I did the Mommy and baby fitness DVD, and LOVED it! That will definitely have to be on our “to-do” list for each week, maybe even a few days a week. I love finding new things for us to do together. I’ve also read that you can start your child on infant sign language as early as six months, so that will be something that I will look forward to doing with him. Right now, he really enjoys sitting in my lap and watching me while I help him clap his hands, sing, play “ride that pony”, and reading to him. He likes his belly time too, but he has such a weak stomach and spits up so easily, that it has to be done WAY after a feeding. He LOVES his bath too. I think that’s probably his most favorite part of the day. Dan and I take turns when he’s home, but we love to make up silly songs to sing to him and he has little animals that squirt water that he loves to play with. He likes to kick his feet in the water all while smiling and giggling. It’s SO adorable. If there wasn’t so many creep-o’s on the internet, we’d post a video of it.
We updated his monthly picture on Christmas day. It’s so hard to believe that he’s over three months old now! We can’t wait to see what this next month brings. Every day we love watching him learn new things and develop his own little personality. It’s such a blessing.